Men are the elusive mysterious creatures that are difficult to understand, and whose reputation can get a little shady at times. That's because those seeking to secure these wonderful male humanoids simply need to understand what men really want. Some relationship experts allege that men seek beauty only, other professionals give men a bit more credence saying that they are not that shallow and of course want more than just beauty. The fact of the matter is that only a man who is mature and has a solid understanding of what true love is can even begin to qualify as a potential suitor. What makes it even more difficult for a real woman to join forces with her life partner, her soul mate, and the man of her dreams is that other women have inadvertently given men the impression that women, in general, are somehow willing to settle for less. What that does is create a false sense of security for men, and has somehow become the misconception that all women are willing to settle for less. The real, real about what men seek is not as much a secret as women may think. Men believe that beauty has no true meaning because "True Beauty" is determined by the suitor, not the public at large. You have seen it far too many times. A couple out and about, and the man is drop dead gorgeous, and the woman appears average at best. You turn to your friend and ask "WTF" is going on there?" Then you giggle, scratch your head, walking away bewildered. That is your answer ladies, real men know what they want, and beauty is simply a placeholder for the true virtues that make a difference in a man's life. Not to mention, when attempting to define beauty you are sure to get hundreds of explanations. It's almost like asking a man what his favorite color or food is. It's impossible to really understand what men see as beautiful, and why. Television has created their own form of beauty, and celebrities come mostly in size 2. However, some of the most complete men, and I mean physically, emotionally, professionally, financially and spiritually may not embrace the status quo. Therefore true love encompasses both beauty and brains and knowing which order is the secret to securing the man of your dreams. The list below will help you to embrace a healthy outlook on understanding beauty vs. brains.
- Understand not all men are created equally
- Love is a subjective word, and can't be defined by just one person
- Beauty has no sides, bottoms, or tops, and it's interpretation can't be delineated
- Never measure your beauty against someone else's, it's unhealthy
- Love who you are if you expect your man to love you back
- Embrace healthy love, which means both parties in the relationship has the admiration factor
- Be emotionally intelligent
- Don't be desperate, it's unattractive
- Be concise about what "you" want and live your truth!
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